She said, "Moments always seem so much more beautiful when they're over. When you look at the past, you know what you had then and lost, what you lost then and gained. The past is always so warm and wistful because you know what comes after. This moment, right now, you and I are lying with our backs on the grass and watching the stars. The air smells sweet, and it's a beautiful moment, but It can't compare to the beauty of even yesterday's breakfast because it doesn't mean anything yet. The trick, I think, is to learn how to live in a constant state of nostalgia in the present tense. This moment means as much now as it will when we look back on it, we just don't know it yet."